You can lead them to the lake but they MUST take the first sip.

If by date 2 or 3 they have not yet provoked in me, the desire to bust buttons and rip off their attire then its usually a sure sign it is going no where but south. The guy just has to have 'throw-down'!
Blue Eyes, (coffee guy), who yes - is back in the game after a little perserverance on his part, just hadnt fired up this fantasy yet. So I called Robinder and she gave it to me. Just put my mind into it and give it a good go were her words of advice. Dinner occured... and I knew that I had to bust right through my 'no booze for one month' New Years rezo to loosen up a lil. So I did. 2 glasses deep. Ready for the kiss. It occurs. Short. Sweet. No fantasy. One more time and I just commit. I was committed to get this guy to step up his sexual aggression. 10pm on the clock. 11:56pm I locked my door with all clothes still on the appropriate parts...tame, but damn I cant wait to see him again. Again, Robinder saves the date.